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Family Constellations

The thinking mind, the mind, the ego. He is the one who wants to understand everything but also the one who plans and mostly directs. The constellation happens on a more subtle level that is often intangible to the mind. Even if we cannot always understand everything, the healing happens anyway.

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In the family and systemic constellations, mind and soul are connected so that the knowledge from the mind and thinking can wander down into the soul in order to let the consciousness grow. Family constellations or systemic constellations can help us to unravel complex psychological and interpersonal relationships. It is often about making it clear where we have taken something from our system (i.e. our family of origin) that does not belong to us per se. Our soul, i.e. the unconscious part of us, tries to find a balance, to create justice in the family system, for something that has happened and wants to be seen in order to find peace. When we put up such a past story and create this picture, souls feel it and find peace.

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Where and how we exchange / act in this system in the working world also plays a role. Everything where we relate to other people is a system. The partnership, the family, everything where we come into contact with other people. Soul: is the place of the pictures, also the place of the archetypes of CG Jung and the place where we come from and where we go.  

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Why / what for a systemic family constellation?

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Sometimes we get stuck in a difficult situation, can't find a solution or just don't know what is right at that moment. To look at yourself, where you are currently in life and where you want to go, is then essential and a constellation is very helpful. I would like to invite you to get closer to yourself and offer you the wonderful healing work of the constellation. Constellations can clarify far more than just family entanglements. We can bring clarity to almost any subject, be it:

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  • Relationships

  • Bereavements

  • Diseases 

  • Addictions

  • professional projects 

  • decisions

  • Desires for children and much more. 

It can also simply be about the need to discover your own strengths.

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What do we do in a constellation?

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After a short conversation with the client, a decision is made as to whom or what we will set out from their concerns, environment or family history. I ask some of the participants to join the group as representatives / representatives for people and topics. This is how an image is created. If a participant in a family constellation or system constellation is asked to represent another person who is usually not present (except of course the client himself), this is called a representative, since he symbolically represents this person. Taking on this role is an experience that has been described time and again as extremely enriching and it is mostly no coincidence that we are elected to represent someone. The representatives find it very valuable and personally enriching to be there for someone else in the collective field of awareness and healing. Just taking on such a role leads to knowledge and healing, even if it is not about your own topic. The deputies often report thematic parallels in their lives.

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In this way, patterns and problematic structures in families, teams or relationships can become visible. It is particularly impressive how the deputies show consistent feelings, postures and behavior in the constellation that correspond to the person they represent, without ever having heard detailed information about this person. During the constellation, the impulses and emotions of the participants are brought into contact with one another in a targeted manner. As a result, new knowledge and possibilities for solution and change-oriented processing of the topic of the constellation are discovered. In addition, the client or the constellator chooses a representative for himself. In this way the client can also look at himself. It's about creating peace not only with everything you got from life, but also with everything that was denied you. All systems such as families, teams, organizations, etc. strive for balance and inner order. The constellation work is based on respect and appreciation for each individual. I am happy to be able to serve you with this work.

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Here are some tips for setting up a line-up:  

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Which concern / topic is currently in the foreground?

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Find out from your family about family members who died prematurely, divorces, illnesses, abortions, war trauma and everything else that could have had a major impact on the family!

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Do not consume alcohol, strong drugs or substances! For this work we need strength and clarity.

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In a preliminary talk, please tell me about severe physical and psychological ailments, as well as medications. In acute cases of illness, a list can be a contraindication, so we clarify this beforehand. There are illnesses and situations that are not suitable for a constellation. In some cases it happens that the client needs support after a constellation in order to integrate the experience. You can contact me at any time.

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